There was a woman named Mary Dyck. Mary Dyck lived on a farm; this farm was mostly isolated from people. While Dyck did housework, she began to listen to the radio. She would listen to soap operas. After listening to the radio, she would keep a diary. In her dairy, she wrote about the characters in the soap operas like she knew them. She began to carry a para-social relationship with these people in order to keep in touch with the real world. This was just the beginning. When television was invented, people began to have para-social relationships with television stars. They believe they were best friends with them, even though they never met them.
After television, there came computers. On computers, there was IM-ing; when IM-ing was introduced, there were chat rooms; in these chat room people could meet complete strangers, but these strangers could be there best friends. After IM-ing, there came sites like myspace, Facebook and twitter. The sites like Myspace and Facebook allowed people to create relationships with new people. We, in our society, only meet a couple of people, but with sites like Facebook or Myspace, people are able to meet people from across the country; they develop these relationships that can last forever. There was a man who met his wife on Facebook; he was happy to have had a Facebook because it allowed him to meet his wife, who lived on the other side of the country. Facebook brought the man happiness.Para-social relationships are seen a lot on twitter. Twitter is a website where you can post anything you want at anytime. Like Facebook, you are able to make new friends. The para-social relationships are made on twitter through celebrities. Since celebrities are on twitter, people friend them. Then, these people follow them; they act like they knows these people; they will talk about this certain celebrity as if they are their best friend; the weird thing is they never met the person.
An important idea, which is related to para-social relationship, is the idea of “ambient awareness.” This idea focus on getting to know someone because of what he or she posts on their twitter or Facebook wall. The person begins to believe he or she is familiar with that person. These sites have allowed people to go a bit crazy. Some people will come up to you and talk about a certain celebrity, but he or she has never met them before. I feel kind of weird, especially when they are talking me.
I feel that Meyrowitz was right about how society is changing because of electronic media. People, now a days, meet others through the internet and not face-to-face. It is scary to see how our society is relying on relationships through online, especially with people he or she has never met before.










